Mob mentality

Just so funny sitting back watching people bash Bon Jovi because of the rumors started by the Toronto Sun's John Kryk. They bought into it so easily that he wants to move the Bills based on anonymous sources. The only legitimate concern would be the fact that Larry Tannenbaum and Ed Rogers are partnering with him. I don't trust either of them.
Jon himself has always treated people with class and does things like open a restaurant where you don't even have to pay a set price... just a donation or help out at the restaurant for a bit if you're broke. Yet a lot of people act like he's the anti-Christ. Anytime someone says he wants to keep the team here, they're immediately branded as liars by the anti-Bon Jovi mob. Even John Kryk, who started the rumor in the first place got called a liar when he reversed course and said they'd keep the team in Buffalo. Mob mentality at its finest.
Last week, an anonymous source said that the Bon Jovi group had researched a few Toronto stadium sites but a few days later, Kryk reports that the sites in Toronto were researched not by Bon Jovi or Tannenbaum, but by Ed Rogers...18 months ago before and over a year before he joined up with Bon Jovi and Tannenbaum. Who to believe? People believed Kryk at first but they've been calling him a liar for months. Lol
Personally, I don't know what to believe...I don't trust Bon Jovi's partners but he seems committed to being the majority owner...which would give him the control over those two. I'd much prefer Pegula but there's a part of me that would love to see Bon Jovi get the team and promptly sign a long term lease, so I can then laugh my ass off at all the people who would start kissing his ass after they were insufferable assholes to him for months. I actually saw one guy actually talking like he'd abandon the team if Bon Jovi got the team even with a long term lease. Says a lot about the mob mentality they have.

God, people are stupid!

The girls suing the Bills, Stejon, and Citadel won a major battle when the court threw out the Bills' motion to dismiss. The news stations posted on FB about it and the number of ignorant comments blows my mind.

You'd think

trying to stay neutral through this Jills lawsuit would be totally positive. I've kept quiet on how Steph has changed since getting all that power because people shouldn't make up their minds on someone based on someone else's words. But apparently my trying to stay neutral didn't sit well with someone I always thought of as a friend. I haven't and won't try to dissuade anyone from defending the Jills organization, no matter what they think of how things are run....but I sure as hell won't help. Question is this...who would you believe? A group of people who always have treated you decently and fairly Someone who has lied to you, slandered you behind your back, and manipulated people into hurting you? How could anyone expect me to defend the 2nd person?

Nice people

People who have to tell someone that they're nice people usually aren't. Actions speak louder than words

Valentine's Day and love

Gave up on a long time ago...but I admit I like watching sappy stuff soon occasion...just to see something I've never really had or can trust anyone enough to have in the future

Just wish

the pain would end...spent a part of everyday since last Sunday in tears. Not sure what triggered it...I know when I saw Hot Tub Time Machine I started thinking about what I'd change to make sure all the crap from the last 20 months or so wouldn't have happened...losing Meghan because of her mother and my being afraid to get too close...getting a knife in the back from the Jills director and feeling it get twisted over and over everytime she forced one of the Jills to turn her back on me.
It was never a big deal for me if a Jill or a Bandette decided to add me as a friend on FB or follow me on Twitter or Instagram...but getting unfriended, unfollowed, or blocked by someone I had thought considered me a friend hurts a lot.

I truly think

that Meghan is just being used as a scapegoat...Steph hung me out to dry and lied to me a number of times in the past

• 2008 Jills Beach Party was postponed due to rain and Steph told me it was rescheduled....I showed up and no one was there
• 2009 Saturday after the Toronto game...an event scheduled at the Snow Park in Niagara Falls, NY...even up on the Jills website...showed up...no one there
• 2010 97Rock away game parties were cancelled after the 2nd one....I showed up for the 3rd to find out the news...that was the day that Meghan and I 1st spent any real time together
• at the 2010 Fundraiser, Steph told me that there'd be a Calendar Release Party on 9/23/11...my 40th bday...it never happened
• then after she already drove the knife into my back, she told me there'd be no Jills at any of the BvB events....yet there were Ashley and Emmy

With girls on the squad being treated like commodities and not human beings, being forced to do some unreasonable stuff, and the questionable cuts over the years, I think Steph wanted me gone years ago but made up some issue with Meghan as a cover story